I reckon that you should speak to her like you just got to town and have to go. Men in most cases typically speak in straight lines like builders wanting to create structures. They also aim and shoot straight with their words. Words are like arrows leaving an archer’s bow straight for a definite target. Women, not so much. At least not a great many of them. Most approach conversation in a non-linear circuitous manner. It is an ensemble.
It can indeed be quite daunting for a man typically to stay the course and not drift away eventually getting completely lost at sea when in conversation with or listening to a woman. Like a ship quite adrift in the deep ocean crashing violently into the unforgiving waves.
To make it doubly clear that you are not from around here, that you just got in town, and you’ve got to go, even though you share the same bed and roof , talk very directly and in straight lines. Be the puzzling stranger. Why? You want to infuse her with wonder. Let her wonder ceaselessly what manner of a man you are. Invite her to wrap her mind around the question of who you are really. Leave her reeling for days without end .
You are not trying to be one of her girlfriends. Why would she want to talk to you and spend time with you when infact she could much rather call up one of her girlfriends for a meetup, chitchat or that sort of thing? I’ll tell you why. It’s because you introduce polarity. You must persist however much she protests.
So. Talk to her like you just got into town from elsewhere and you got to go. The rub however, is that it requires a great deal of spine. It requires spine because it is dangerous and the stuff of legend. By doing this, you end up stirring a primal nest of base female instincts ; primordial in a sense. It gets very intriguing because suddenly, there is no such thing as finesse or refinement but only the primacy of raw instinct.
It seems that when women first appeared on the surface of the earth, they came in far more curious than cats. It is safe to say they are creatures of curiosity, forever trying to figure out stuff. Sometimes discreetly, sometimes not so discreetly. So one runs the latent risk of being subjected to this instinctual scrutiny. A prime candidate for some detective work.
If a woman feels truly, if she feels that you are from out of town, out of here, and probably from outer space and you talk to her unlike anyone she has known or met you get into her cross-hairs for some thorough investigation. The unintended consequence here, which is a powerful one, is that as does that she ends up reaching out for the stinging nettle from whose itch she will not escape. Notably, she won’t know about it until it’s too late in the day.
The fascination and intrigue all gang up to pique her while the gravitas of attraction exerts itself upon her delicate soul like a bird caught in a snare. Unbeknownst to her she is already waxing hot. But in any event, talk to her like you just arrived in town.
Magna Tales
We just got here!!
